Perception is Projection

You are the imagination of yourself

~ Max Spiers

   Standing in line at the post office the other day two people were chatting about a friends dog. Person A adored the dog and person D was disturbed by the dog. The longer the conversation continued it appeared everything mentioned disturbed person D, and person A found it all adorable.

“We don’t see things as they are
We see things as we are.”

~ Anais Nin

   Honest people never expect others would lie. Deceitful people assume others are dishonest or hiding something in some way. For the person who has never cheated on a partner, it’s impossible to imagine someone they love cheating…simply inconceivable. Yet the player, cheater type, believes everyone is constantly seeking better options.

   What we like or dislike,  
focus on or don’t focus on, agree to or disallow,
all depends on how we view or perceive

   The fastest way to get to know someone is to observe what they comment on, what they notice or don’t notice, how they respond or react and how they view people and things….because eventually, this is how they will view you and comment on you.

We all perceive each other through our own lense.
If you want someone to love you
choose someone who loves themselves.
This is the only way!

   The fastest path to transform yourself is to notice your own thoughts, reactions and comments and ponder why you think and respond the way you do. This will tell you everything you need to know about how you see yourself, and what needs lovin’ inside. 

May we all change the world through loving eyes